7 habbits of highly effective people 
by stephen covey

Introduction
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, written by Stephen R. Covey walks readers through the principles and what it takes to achieve both personal and professional success, and how this can be done by simply changing the way that they view the world.

While there are some individuals who have achieved success outwardly on some level, these individuals are still struggling with an inner need. They are still falling short when it comes to developing healthy relationships with others. They also have not mastered what it means to be personally effective. Covey describes the 7 habits which, if applied correctly, will help you achieve the success that you desire.

Habit 1: Being Proactive
The first habit is cantered around you having the power to choose. In Covey’s exact words, “You create your reality. You are in charge.” The first habit focuses on how the experiences and emotions that we go through are because we allowed it to happen to us.

If we want to change that, we must take proactive steps to initiate that change, to be the change that we want to see. We must start focusing on the things that we can control, or as Covey calls it “the circle of concerns.” This is where the author suggests that the shift in mental focus begins.

Habit 2: Beginning With an End in Mind
Covey tells readers that they need to start creating their reality. To stay on the path to success, you must be clear about where you’re heading and what you want to achieve when you reach your destination. Covey recommends that you spend some time thinking about your goals, and think about the kind of person you want to be. This will give you some perspective about the end result that you want to achieve, which will then give you a much clearer picture about the approach that you need to take.

Habit 3: Putting Things First
In this habit, Covey mentions that time management is not just about managing your time, but managing your life. He introduces what is known as the Time Quadrant in this habit as a method of determining how effectively your time should be managed. The quadrant is divided into four categories - Urgent, Not Urgent, Important and Not Important.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win
The win-win way of thinking is what Covey says is the best approach to interacting with others. This thinking approach can be achieved if we adopt three essential character traits, which are maturity, integrity and the abundance mentality.

Habit 5: Seeking First to Understand; Only Then to Be Understood
Communication is an important life skill that everyone should learn to master. Too often, we are not taught enough how to listen effectively. Covey points out that listening involves four stages, which are attentive listening, empathic listening, pretending that you’re listening, and ignoring what you hear entirely. While most good listeners tend to stop at attentive listening, it is empathic listening that helps us walk a mile in someone else’s shoes; to see things from their perspective and to understand where they are coming from.

Habit 6: Synergy
Covey tells readers that a team is much stronger than an individual, and the effectiveness of teamwork can be summed up into one word - synergy. Here, Covey explains that the key to a good group synergy is being able to value all of the qualities that different people bring to the team dynamic. By embracing these differences and viewing them as strengths instead of challenges, that is when true excellence can be achieved.

Habit 7: Sharpening the Saw
Take care of yourself, because you are your greatest asset. You could have developed all the successful habits in the world, but if you don’t care for yourself, you won’t get very far on the road to success either. There are four major aspects of self-care, which Covey says we need to focus on, and these are physical, mental, social and spiritual aspect of our lives. It is important to care for all four aspects so that neither one is neglected or overlooked. These are the habits that help us achieve true overall success.